Monday, June 28, 2010

FEAR

Fear refers to innate, almost biologically based alarm response to a dangerous and life threatening situation, it is coupled with anxiety that something terrible will happen and you are powerless to change it. Sometimes, before you feel that “something” terrible will happen there will be a manifestation, a series of bad luck or events which you feel so helpless, that will be your stressor that will trigger the modular globes of your brain that causes fear and anxiety and you cannot control it, you feel hopeless that sometimes could lead to panic disorder that the treat is so great that it could kill you.
For example: your cell phone was ringing and when you answered the call, the other line was so silent and then the moment you cut the line, your landline phone will now ring and when you answered still the other line was silent, and the moment you put down the phone, your doorbell buzzed as if there is someone at your front door, and when you open the door there’s no one. The moment you closed the door, your cell phone rings again and so forth,. repetitive scenes..and for almost 15 minutes of this cycle, fear now incorporates in your brain..The person doing these things was just near to you,. So near that you failed to recognize him though you greatly knew him, he’s just like a wind.
If this happens to you what would you do?
Learn to read people and observed as she had read your life by your actions..and now who’s in control of your life,.. is it her or you?

FAULTLINE

An intelligence of sufficient capacity might perhaps be able to conceive of all events as standing to each other in the relation of cause and effect; and though the most powerful of human minds are unequal to efforts which fall infinitely short of this, it is possible not only to trace the connection between cause and effects, both in regard to human conduct and in regard to inanimate matter, to every considerable lengths, but to see that numerous events are connected together, although the precise nature of the links which connect them may not be open to observation.
The CASE was purely administrative, based on the evidence presented by the complainant; the iota of the case was purely based on hearsay, on her doubts about the truth of the matter that keeps on haunting her all through out that period of delusional moment of her pathetic life. She presented different kinds of pictures and or photographs and a series of videos which obviously irrelevant to the issues of the case. It was an error on her part to present such evidence because there will be an admission on her part that such photographs and videos existed, and it was her who took the photographs and later on presented it as her evidence,. Much worst that such admission were written in her affidavit and notarized, she just gave the respondent the opportunity to charge her with one crime and prosecuted her of another crime of a very different and dissimilar crime.
And the respondent filed a criminal complaint against her at the fiscal’s office and during the preliminary investigation she failed to appear at all the scheduled hearings which prompted the investigating prosecutor to elevate the case at the court of justice where the presiding judge issued the warrant of arrest. She has 4 criminal cases pending and for those 4 criminal cases there is an outstanding 3 warrant of arrest against her. Is it not ironic that the evidence she presented at the administrative case she filed against the respondent was the same evidence of paper documents that respondent used against her at the criminal case which the respondent filed against her and also the basis of the issuance of the warrant of arrest against her.
This is an actual case where the author represents the respondent in the administrative case, and now the complainant-lady has an outstanding warrant of arrest at the court of justice. HER evidence greatly helped the respondent for the issuance of HER warrant of arrest.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

It's My Space, That's Why They Call It MySpace,


The danger of social working sites, you are responsible for the information that you posted at your site, these information can be used against you to phish information data and classified thing that were too personal, everybody can just harvest these information without you knowing it and viola...all of your information and data were change and the original YOU were replaced by the PHISHER,..and who's fault is that?...IT's your fault,.change everything from your password, e-mail and all your important information must not be posted at your social networking sites.

While most users of social networks are law-abiding there always has to be a criminal element to ruin it for the rest of us.As technology advances, so does the opportunity to violate the rights of others by committing crimes in cyberspace.This crime, like all high-tech crimes, is defensible, but only if your lawyer is familiar with the latest in technological trends and criminal defenses related to cybercrime.

You should never forget - there are no depths to which cybercriminals are not prepared to stoop in their hunt for victims. Remember to be on your guard against such tactics..Protect your self from these cybercriminals that hunts information to potential victims.

You might be the next victim......

Friday, June 11, 2010

Prenuptial agreement

Often associated with movie stars, famous musicians and other wealthy jet-setters, prenuptial agreements are contracts signed by both partners before the wedding. Called “prenups” for short, these contracts typically list each partner’s assets (property, money, investments, etc.) and liabilities (debts). The prenup outlines how marital property, in addition to premarital property, is to be divided in the event of a marriage; and contrary to popular belief, they often are used by non-wealthy people to protect a family business or other such assets. In the absence of a prenup, property and debts typically are divided right down the middle.

Deciding how a marriage will be dissolved before even getting married might sound like the ultimate red flag. But regardless of the "forever" concept of marriage and at risk of sounding too cynical, the fact is that filipino couples have a 50/50 chance that their marriage will end in annulment.

That means a prenuptial agreement (or "prenup") makes logical, if not romantic, sense for many couples.

For me, It's not just something for the rich and famous any longer. It's for people that have assets and/or income that they want to protect...and I'm glad I never executed a prenup because I'm poor.

Of legal age and yet so young

Does marrying young increase a couple's odds of separation and annulment?

Obviously the big question is "why? Younger couples may have the all-important biological chemistry, they may lack emotional maturity and have limited life experiences.Younger people are more apt to go into marriage with the expectation that the other person is going to fulfill them. Older people are probably a little more seasoned, more realistic. I also noted that young couples usually lack the benefit of having spent substantial amounts of time together prior to a marriage. People who wait a few years,are able to draw upon positive memories to smooth over the rough spots in any long-term relationship.But even science suggests that young people who are in love don't have brains that are developed enough to make the right decisions. Peg Donley said women's brains are not fully developed until the age of 25 and that men's brains aren't fully finished until sometime between 25 and 30 years of age. And those endorphins that make you happy when you're around your special someone? They only last for about three years after marriage. Couples who rely on romance to keep things together after the endorphins wear off often are disappointed.

How about if one of the other half of the couple is young, young in everything even lacks maturity though the marriage were consented by the parents.,would they even pull it through?.were not the young one would only commit infidelity's to the other because of lack of maturity?..

That's the reason why I got married on my adulthood..marriage must be coupled with mutual love, respect and fidelity and the contract attached to the marriage will always be the rule of boundary of everything.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Wedding Ceremonies

Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged in a variety of ways, depending on the culture or subculture in which it is found. Such a union may also be called matrimony, while the ceremony that marks its beginning is usually called a wedding.

People marry for many reasons, most often including one or more of the following: legal, social, emotional, economical, spiritual, and religious. These might include arranged marriages, family obligations, the legal establishment of a nuclear family unit, the legal protection of children and public declaration of love.

So many reason, with one outcome to find a partner that will always love you no matter what you are, who you are and what you do.

I have the qualms of getting married three years ago,. so many what if's..however my partner waited for me so long that it would be so painful for him if I will canceled again the wedding date.,though I really love him but doubts never leave my heart.

And so I decided to grow old with him, in a very solemn ceremony, we made it on our first wedding date,.very solemn indeed,.the second time is also as solemn as the first, it was held here at manila, a simple civil wedding at the court of justice, and the third wedding date was the most memorable, it was held at my hometown and most of my relatives were there,.and the wedding ceremonies all happen within one year.

And now we plan to get married again, to renew our vows on our 25th year anniversary on a church wedding probably at Manila.Why 25th year,.I fall in love with him at the age of 13, and the flames of love is still burning....forever.